For my uncle Bob, who joined the Marines in the summer of 1941 and got back home in 1946, and uncle Ken, who sat out the war and then got to liberate the concentration camps, and my dad, who was some kind of spy, and never talked about it at all, and Ed, who came back from Vietnam a decorated hero, and Pat, who came back missing a few pieces, and Tim, who didn't come back at all, and Betsy, who has 4 kids and made major, and Cal, who still is in Canada because he was too prominent a war resister to get amnesty, and all the others who've had to deal with this stuff over the years. Thanks!